I need to remember why I like this show and these characters. It's amazing what mediocre and bad fanfic can do to my fandom sometimes. So... which episodes of Buffy should I watch to get me to love the show again?

I'm mostly a Xander fan, I love early Willow, I love Faith, I loathe Spuffy and I will probably never watch season seven again (save for a couple of select episodes).

Help?

(And, while we're at it - reccs for Angel eps and fic which I haven't yet read which will restore my faith in fandom would be much appreciated!)