20 October 2005 @ 09:05 am
Huh  
Firstly - thank you all for commenting on my first attempt to write Simon! You have no idea how bouncy it made me to see such positive responses!

Second - my password for LJ is kinda like the one Veronica reels off when she asks the IT guy to change it in the first season of Veronica Mars - not the same, just in no way predictable - so why did Deepest Sender just tell me it was too easy to guess and recommend I change it? Especially since LJ is a bugger when it comes to passwords "this is based on a dictionary word" - ya think? Sorry - IT issues.

Third - I got no problem with people talking in the office, hell I do it all the time, but when you're a shelver who doesn't even work in this office normally and you constantly leave the door open and stand for at least ten minutes talking quite loudly, can I ask you one thing? Don't frelling lean on my desk and scratch your ass when you're doing it! (It wasn't even me he was chatting to either - in fact the girl he was talking to had been talking to me before he came into the room and interrupted us.

Fourth - I still have nothing to do today and am finding it really difficult to get into Mara's head for the [livejournal.com profile] fanfic100 fics. I'll get there, never fear, it's just... odd.

'Kay, now I'm going to do the five minutes of work I have right now and then maybe get some writing done. *g*

Oh - knew there was something more I was going to say. The new seasons of Stargate have just started in the UK (yeah, we're quite far behind this time around for some reason) and I have to say while I'm loving the new season of Farscape... oh sorry, that should be SG-1, Atlantis is kinda not hooking me yet. I'm not abandoning it by any means, but it just seems to have lost a little of the spark it had.

ETA looking for a little advice. Last weekend my sister and I had this conversation:
Her "Do you use your laptop a lot?"
Me "Yeah, I use it a fair bit. Why?"
Her "I was wondering if I could borrow it for college work."
Me "Well..."
Her "It'd just be for eight or nine weeks, but if it's a problem."
Me "It's not that, it's just..."
Her "(laughing) It's either that or I get you to type up my notes for me since you're a faster typer than me."
Me "I'll think about it."

I was going to say yes, mostly out of habit really, but then I started thinking about it. She doesn't really take care of her own things all that well (her new car is already jam-packed full of sweet wrappers and rubbish) so how do I know she's not going to damage my laptop? She won't be able to work it properly - it has a glitch in the start-up. I should really revert to factory settings but it's easy enough for me to bypass so I've just never bothered - so she'll be phoning me constantly asking me for help. And finally, her 8 or 9 weeks (knowing her) will stretch out well into the new year and there's a good chance I might never see it back again. Plus, her 8 or 9 weeks runs over the NaNo span when I really will be using it almost all the time.

So how do I say no when she clearly thinks I've already said yes? 'Kay, I hate families...
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[identity profile] willowmina.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 01:21 am (UTC)
On the password front. I use some letters and a phone number I ring often. It's memorable and unless someone get's hold of your phone book is pretty much near impossible to guess, especially with the letters in there to throw in some more randomness.
[identity profile] whiskyinmind.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 01:23 am (UTC)
Seriously there is no way anyone would be able to guess my password - it's random words with letters swapped and numbers for random vowels. How anyone would think that's easy to guess is... well, anyone's guess!
[identity profile] sanityfaerie.livejournal.com on October 23rd, 2005 02:30 am (UTC)
hrmm
You should be warned that there are password cracking programs out there now that speak L33T. Just saying.

the Sanity Faerie
[identity profile] jgracio.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 04:20 am (UTC)
You could huh, forget the whole conversation? And then, "I did? Oh, I'm sorry, but I just didn't remember, and now I really need it, sorry..."

And I just got my first INAP reviews. *Squee* Ahem, I mean, slight twitch of lips (in a manly way). Heh.
[identity profile] willowmina.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 05:19 am (UTC)
I agree... you've got to tell her no. I have trouble doing that with my sister, which reminds me.. must check if she's at work this weekend. I'm sure it's supposed to be the Bride's dress that takes time to choose, not the Bridesmaid dresses *grumble grumble*.
[identity profile] smhwpf.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 06:02 am (UTC)
It's either that or I get you to type up my notes for me since you're a faster typer than me.

The lady is taking the piss! (I wonder if that might be a joke, but on past form I wouldn't be too sure...)

No way should you lend her your laptop for that long if you're likely to need it! (Or if you have a reasonable concern that she might not look after it that well). And you haven't said you would, you've said you'll think about it. Which implies that the outcome of such thinking might be a 'no'.

Gotta learn to stand up for yourself, Sho! (Says the world-famous buyer of rugs. But I'm learning!)
[identity profile] whiskyinmind.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 06:19 am (UTC)
Oh she's not taking the piss. She already said to me "Can you get me some books out of the library?" I said "Sure, no problem, give me the list and I'll check we have them." Her reply, "I don't have a list, I just have some names of researchers - can you get me books about them?"

You being in the position you are can probably relate to the extent to which my head was hitting the desk.

*g*

So tell me, how many rugs do you have now? *joking* I'm thinking I may go with the "I don't remember us talking about it - I'm using it now." route. Kind of a cop out, but if it works? Yay!
[identity profile] smhwpf.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 06:27 am (UTC)
'Taking the piss' as in 'making unreasonable requests'/'behaving unreasonably' etc., rather than 'joking'. Perhaps that is not common usage in Glasgow...

I just have some names of researchers - can you get me books about them?

*speechless*

No rugs! All given away as Christmas presents! So they were put to good use, but most expensive Christmas EVA!
[identity profile] whiskyinmind.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 06:35 am (UTC)
Aha - yes, not the most common usage, although it is one of the usages. Or maybe it's just me. *g*

And it gets worse, she's doing some kind of managerial nursery course along with her manager (hence the college thing) and she asked me to do database searches for not only her topic of 'private nurseries versus primary caregivers' but also her manager's topic of 'left/right handedness and intellectual growth'. Only she didn't call it database searches, she just said "could you find me and J things about this?"

Good to hear about the rug situation though!
[identity profile] acrazywench.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 08:43 am (UTC)
I've had some thoughts about your sister's requests and felt the need to come up with some responses on your behalf:

In response to the research and typing requests:

'Sure I’ll do your research for you. On the condition that when you finish your course you give me your qualification and 30% of any subsequent pay increases that you and your manager receive.'

'As for your notes, I’m not taking your course so I wouldn’t understand them as well as you and would be constantly bugging you for explanations. Also, I don’t want to deprive you of the learning experience since part of typing up/writing up notes process is ensuring that what is being learnt is being understood and then known.'

'If you type up your notes your own touch typing skills will improve giving you more transferable skills. I don’t want to be the reason for you missing out on this opportunity.'

'I'm sure your tutor feels that researching these subjects is very important for you to develop as an independent learner. I don't want to be the one who stops you from learning vital research skills.'

In response to the laptop request:

'My laptop isn’t working properly and I can’t afford [in barbed voice with pointed look] to get it sorted out at the moment so I’m afraid you can’t borrow it.'

'I’ll lend you my laptop on the condition that you return the money you owe me and put down a security deposit to guarantee that: a) you will return it and b) you will return it in good condition.'

'No. If you don’t look after your own things, why should you look after mine?'

'No. I need it quite a lot at the moment so it wouldn’t be convenient for you to have it for an extended period of time.

[To this last one you could possibly add: 'Also, as you know I’m going away for the weekend in November, I’ll need to take the laptop with me to ensure that no-one in the group gets withdrawal symptoms.'*g*]

As Sam says, your sister's taking the piss and then some! Do not give in to her! She's an adult, it's about time she took some responsibility for herself.

Beck.xx
[identity profile] velvetwhip.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 08:30 am (UTC)
Tell her that you were tired and not thinking and that you really need your laptop. Or tell her you'll loan it to her when she pays you back the money she owes you!


Gabrielle
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Naol: Invader Zim[identity profile] naol.livejournal.com on October 20th, 2005 10:36 am (UTC)
Farscape SG1 is rather fun. But Atlantis takes some time to get off the ground. It's still not sooper-great, but if only for David Hewlett's character in later episodes, you'll be kicking yourself if you don't watch it :)

As for your sib, tell her to shove it. If you can't, suddenly become mysteriously overworked and unavailable. And LIE! Tell her that the laptop is broken. That the laptop is owned by the library and you can't loan it. That the laptop is on vacation in the south of France with a cell phone it met while out clubbing. Anything. Just do not loan it to her.

You won't always be able to help your sister out, so you're really doing her a favor by forcing her to stand on her own two feet now, whatever she has to say on the matter.
[identity profile] whiskyinmind.livejournal.com on October 21st, 2005 10:08 am (UTC)
It's the second season of Atlantis we're seeing, I did really like season one but this just seemed a let down. Although it has to be said that David Hewlett was the bright spot!

I'm ignoring my sister for the moment, but this weekend I'm sure she's going to ask again. I will say no. I'm just not 100% sure how that conversation's going to go or if she's going to be talking to me by this time on Monday, but maybe that's actually for the bst.